And If They Mind, They Dont Matter…

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Even a single life is not single as such. You are bound to have people in your life, directly or indirectly. So, how far can we let these ‘people’  affect our lives?  Well, you may say, those who matter can not be ignored. True! But, what if they matter and push you to the point where you are either battling with your guilt of putting their account on hold till you know how to deal with them or they realize how they are supposed to behave or you just tell yourself clearly that they are not worth of ruining the peace of you life.

What would you prefer to do? Would you like to act saintly and continue tolerating their un-fair, in-sane attitude or would choose to live your way, peacefully? Do you count it wise to continue ignoring ill treatment and having a bigger heart for those who are adamant not to change their rigid ways?

Do we have right to define our own life the way it keeps us happy and sane? If these troublesome people are happy the way they are, are you supposed to feel guilty for not being forgiving everytime? Shall we sometimes try to give them a chance to mend their ways by not being too good and too kind?